The Difference Between Surrender and Silence
There’s something I’ve been thinking about since a conversation I had the other day. Someone decided to tell me that a submissive having boundaries somehow makes them less submissive. that if a sub says no, has limits, or refuses something they don’t consent to, then they aren’t a “real” sub. They called it being a trickster. And apparently, in their version of submission, a dominant can do whatever they want because the sub has given up their right to boundaries. Even going as extreme so as to say a Dom could kill their sub if they chose to. That is apparently “proof” of what real submission looks like. I was also told that I seemed to have an attitude because I was standing up for myse...